Thank you for your responses. They are *very* helpful!
Yoda, the precision of your reply greatly furthered my understanding of exactly where and how I should feel the pressure. This will make a huge difference in my practice, and eventually in my play.
Comdpa, I absolutely love your idea with the play dough. I will buy some tomorrow. This is a truly brilliant "training aid." For novices such as myself, such advice is priceless. The rest of your post was also most helpful
Gentlemen, you have enlightened me, (and others, no doubt), and for that I am very grateful. Thank you.