Hitting--through impact

[Jazzyshan]

I still don't have a clear sense of how the swing should feel while releasing through impact.

Can someone describe to me in layman's terms (with accompanying TGM terminology if you like) what sensation I should be feeling with my hands through impact, as well as what is actually happening (i.e. what kind of hinging, etc.)?

So far, while hitting, I either have a "no-release" sensation (sustaining PP#3 through impact) that tends to produce nice results with shorter irons and increasingly large fades with my longer clubs, or a "timed release" sensation, which feels like clubhead throwaway, and sometimes produces powerful shots and sometimes produces hooks.

I feel like I'm close, but not quite getting it.
TIA for any help.

Thanks!

Jazzy