Thank you for the detail explanation OB, I will give that drill a try, I think once I get the LAG feeling for the 1st time properly it should be a lot easier! by the way do I pre-clear my right hips with that drill as well? and I am not sure my grip is correct, can an incorrect grip causes you to not feel any lag at all? ( i am TRYING to use a strong single action grip, i might upload some pictures later)
the following is my sequence for hitting, is there anything wrong with this? (besides not feeling the lag

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1. impact fix / right forearm on plane
2. square stance/square clubface
3. right forearm take away on plane / hip clears automatically
4. bring to hitter's top position (around shoulder height)
5. hip slide/bump and drop shoulder/elbow on plane
6. thrust my FLW/BRW/right forearm across to the aiming point, down forward and out
7. still learning to finish swivel